Saturday, December 7, 2019

Leftovers Again?


Are you having leftovers for a meal, multiple times during the same week? Is someone complaining? Perhaps, you need a multiple-use, leftover planning solution.

If you have someone who will eat the leftovers from a meal one time, but not a second time, you should consider freezing the leftovers from your meals.

 A shallow 3-cup container by Glad can contain one of the following combinations.
  • a TV dinner for one
  • 4-servings of a vegetable or dessert
  • one serving of a low-calorie soup
  • the base ingredient for another dish
Raw hamburger (when freezing, divide it with a doubled separator of waxed paper) can make any of the following meals.
  • hamburgers
  • hamburger steaks
  • hamburger steak and gravy
  • beef for soup
  • chili
  • spaghetti sauce
Leftover chili has a variety of uses
  • chili for hamburgers or hot dogs or
  • chili for beans
  • chili with cheese for dips
  • chili beans can be served over rice/potatoes/bread
Stewed chicken breasts are a staple for many different meals. Try putting the basic stewed chicken with broth in the 3-cup containers for quick meals.
  • make chicken salad
  • chicken and rice
  • chicken and noodles
  • chicken and gravy
  • chicken sandwiches
  • lightly floured and fried chicken breasts
Change up your meals by freezing leftovers or portioning your base meats for different menu choices. If you vary the vegetables and spices that you use, you can give meals a lift from tedious regularity. Getting into the habit of fixing meals using base ingredients for different types of meals is awesome.

Who wants the same leftovers twice in one week?

Have you considered freezing the leftovers for later use?

Prepare different meals instead of serving the same leftovers back-to-back. If you think ahead, you can repurpose the leftovers into a brand new dish.

Consider fixing breakfast menu choices for your supper. Here are great mix-and-match menu choices for a novice cook.

·        eggs
·        bacon/ham
·        grits/rice
·        toast/bun/biscuit
·        pancakes/waffles
·        oatmeal with jelly or jelly/peanut butter

Do the above solutions offer sufficient alternatives to address the “what again” reactions to your menu choices?

Let the person who is complaining fix a meal to break the perceived monotony. He or she does not get to purchase take-out, order a meal delivery, or buy junk food for alternative meals. The available ingredients are limited to those within the house.

Tuesday, December 3, 2019

Small Space Organizational tips


What are some of your best organization tips for someone living in a small space?
  • Furniture should have a dual purpose.
  • A side table should have storage space.
  • You can use file cabinets (two-drawers) as side tables for seating.
  • A storage chest can double as a coffee table.
  • Use two file cabinets as the base for a table. Add a hollow door as a tabletop. However, you need to leave an open seating area space in the middle.
  • Chairs can transform into a sleeping space.
  • Couches can transform into beds.
  • Bunk beds have desk areas or trundle beds for alternative uses.
  • Captain’s beds have drawer storage underneath and shelf storage at the headboard.
  • Use a tall dresser instead of two or more small dressers.
  • Drop leaf tables are versatile. Use them for dining, playing board or card games as entertainment, a craft station, or as a temporary desk for office purposes. Valuable floor space is available for living when the tables are not open for use.
  • Bookcases or tall rolling shelves can house multiple things in different rooms. Fabric cubes can contain or hide items that you do not want to view.
  • A set of chrome shelves can hold an entire wardrobe.
  • Reduce the number of items that you keep so that they will fit your space.
  • Try to establish a core set of clothing so that you can mix and match your outfits. Maintain a second core set of clothing that coordinates with the first set of clothing if you have space. Do not keep orphan clothing items.
  • Do you have collectibles? Display the items that mean the most to you and store the rest. Rotate the items periodically to refresh your space.
  • Nest your kitchen supplies to save space in your cabinets.
  • Maintain a shopping list so that you can minimize extra supplies on hand.
  • Put needed items on the shopping list when you reach your predetermined minimal amount of those items.
  • Use a library, a kindle, or an online service instead of purchasing books or magazines.

Wednesday, November 13, 2019

I am not ready for the holidays.


The holidays are fast approaching and I am not ready.


I have been keeping up with day-to-day clutter cleaning; however, I have not done the little things that make my house feel like a home.


I need to dust and clean each room. I despise dusting that is why there is such a need to do it before the holidays.


Therefore, I have promised myself that I will hop to it tomorrow morning--especially if it is too cold to go outdoors.


I did not dust today. I can always find a reason to put off a task that I do not like to do.


I did my emails, balanced the checkbook, paid the bills, cooked supper while I washed two loads of clothes, and gave my Blue-front Amazon a shower.


Overall, I had an easy day.


Now it is time to get on the elliptical exercise machine for a bit.


You will notice that I still have not dusted today.


Tomorrow will just have to be the dusting day!

Saturday, October 26, 2019

Is decluttering good for mental health?


Decluttering—is it good for mental health?

For people with hoarding tendencies, decluttering may not be good for their mental health initially—they will be stressed. Many hoarders will need professional help in order to declutter. Even those ordered to clean out a home in order to keep their children have failed. Marriages have failed when a hoarder cannot overcome their disability.

For regular ordinary folks such as packrats, collectors, shopping fiends with purpose, maybe decluttering is good for their mental health. Crafters will take you out if you mess with their supplies. Ahem, maybe that last was a little extreme, but you get the drift.

We all have different levels of organization and clutter tolerance. Problems develop when differing personalities share the same space. Many of us have a little hidden area in our lives where clutter hides…that closet, storage building, garage, attic, basement, spare bedroom, and junk drawer.

No one can declutter for you. You will resent them. You have to do it for yourself. You might ask for muscle power; however, unless you request it, you will not really want the verbal input such as, “why are you keeping that,” or “are you really going to get rid of that,” or “if you don’t want this, I’d really like to have it.”

I have organized a church kitchen, lots of cleaning, labeling, getting like with like, and donating some needed items to the church. The process did not involve getting rid of anything: just giving everything a home…and decluttering is complete.

I have helped a few friends organize some areas in their homes, with suggestions of where or how to store or display things….but did not comment about what they chose to keep or discard. In addition, I have been asked back to help again.

Decluttering need not mean disposal of items…if you do not have an overabundance of items in the first place. It can mean creating an oasis of calm, a retreat, an action station geared for your work style, a craft space/room.

Zoning, by placing items needed for a specific activity in close proximity, does help with removing clutter. Knowing the method of organization that works best for you will make the process easier.

Having a vision for a room or workspace and removing items that do not support that vision can be considered “decluttering.” Completing the process to achieve the vision for the area is liberating.

I do not know about you, but when I am successful in achieving a goal, my mental self gives me a high five. In this instance, decluttering is good for mental health.

You decide for yourself. Is the goal worth achieving? Are you willing to put forth the effort? Do you feel better after achieving your goal? Is being positive about yourself good?

Hum, you have the answer. What is your conclusion? Is decluttering good for your mental health?

Sunday, October 13, 2019

New Email For Free E-Book in Word or PDF

Somehow when Google+ closed everything the email of the same name associated with this blog was rendered inaccessible to me. I cannot get in and cannot be acknowledged as the owner. So here, once again is the link to the new email, If you want the Free ebook/word/pdf document contact me. Let me know if it helps you live better with what you already have in your life.


creatingyourforeverhome@yahoo.com


Plush Animal Collections

There are a lot of ways to corral plush toys. This is the one I currently find the most interesting in terms of space and diy.





More description in the sellers marketplace. Marine bungee cord, screws with eyes to hold cord in place. Three squares and 4 vertical supports add height and square footage. Can be made to fit any area. Could fix a frame front for an older bookcase or entertainment center.

Friday, October 11, 2019

Attitude? A quick moment to reflect.

Carolyn Overcash
Carolyn Overcash, I am a mother, grandmother, aunt to forty five children.
I’ve had quite a few lemons over the past few years, but you make lemonade by adding the sweetness of life, relationships with others, investing in the goodness of others by your own giving to others, your encouragement to those striving to be better, the sharing of knowledge, and by faith—trusting in He who made you. 

You are His creation, you are to seek His purpose for your life, and strive to fulfill that purpose. When you are walking the correct path, even being handed lemons is not that bad. Look for the good. It is all around you. Life is sweet.

Sunday, October 6, 2019

Getting mentally decluttered

Second is prayer or meditation, take time to be quiet and listen to that still small voice you hear.
Third, family and friends are more important than things. Store up a treasure house of good memories with your family and friends as the main actors in that house.
Fourth, give of yourself, your time, your talents and help others.
Fifth, learn who you are, what is your purpose and become the person that you would want as your best friend.
Sixth, tackle physical clutter, one step at a time.
Seventh, schedule time to tackle household tasks Every day.
Eighth, Take care of your health and your body
Ninth, find someone or something living to love.
Tenth, Let go of anger, resentment, grudges.
Eleventh, Forgive yourself and others
Twelfth, help someone in secret, neither brag or boast.

Entry into week 1 diary of Fashion Detox Challenge


Week 1: Dear diary

I have one 23-inch deep clothing closet…contains all my clean casual and dress clothing. My portion of the closet is 4 feet wide, hubby has the other side and a 4 feet wide section.

Using this challenge for not buying clothing for 10 weeks as the swift kick in the ---- that I needed. I was able to go through my closet and remove clothing. Sometimes, just getting started doing a dreaded task is enough to get you motivated to finishing a job.

During this week, I finished going through my closet and removed clothing. I found someone who wants the things that I wish to remove. They will go through the clothes and will get rid of what they do not want to keep.

Outgoing list
  One camisole
  Shirts (20, including the “shrunk “ones my husband dried)
  Two skirts
  Shorts (11 pairs--half with zippers and buttons)
  Pants (4 with zippers and buttons)
  Dresses (5 total -3 memory dresses)

I retained a few motorcycle tee shirts that are going to become a wheelchair throw for a vet.

This challenge is great, I have to take time to stop and think before I rush out and replace the things that I need to get rid of so I can appreciate the outfits I love.

Unfortunately, I blew it.  Shopping alert!

I do not buy many clothes. sometimes certain  purchases are a necessity. I purchased one pair of black flat-waist, stretch, straight-leg pants and one little black, knee-length dress. Two in and 43+ out, not a bad trade.

Note, I even have a little free space, maybe my clothes will be able to breathe.

Tuesday, October 1, 2019

Your Clothing Inventory


I joined a Fashion Detox Challenge-10 weeks without buying clothes and I started thinking…

How often do we take inventory of our clothing?

I am retired now. My uniform work shirts are gone. The pants are still here because I can still wear them. Five pair of jean stretch pants (wore for work when I worked up to 7days a week.)

How many of us have “twin” outfits? I know I do.

How many of us have that two or three or four little black dresses. We only wear one, not liking how we look in the other dresses?

My dress black slacks-multiple pairs need to find 2-3 that still fit.
I have various jackets that go with black to add color or jazz the outfit up. I have no idea how many there are. Might just be time to find out.

I know I have three long sleeve white blouses exactly alike, in addition to three or four more white blouses.

I have a variety of v-neck pastel tees; however, I have decided my gray hair needs darker jewel tones.

Hubby washed and dried my stretch tee shirts; unfortunately, they shrank vertically. Trust me; no one wants to see a pasty white belly.

With this challenge, I have to take time to stop and think before I rush out and get any new things. I need to get rid of duplicates or things that I have worn forever, definitely things that no longer fit or flatter.

Have you ever stopped and thought that instead of “fitted” styles that we need to pick styles that forgive that monthly bloat or weight gain?

Instead of that one size over our current regular size or that outfit that is slightly small (that we are going to lose weight to get into), maybe we ought to pick something that has an extra give.

Most of my fitted slacks are leaving my closet piece by piece. Slacks with some elastic in the waist are replacing them.

For all of you younger women out there, I am in that pear shaped group of people whose “sand” eventually shifts. The weight might be the same…the distribution varies from where it used to be.

Women’s bodies change after certain life events--birth of a child, weight loss, illness, injury, comfort/stress eating, and menopause. (Exceptions are few in my experience.) Make sure that you take stock of how your clothing fits after these life changes.

Plan for the difficulties of your fashion needs in your daily lives. Try to plan multiple outfits with the different clothing articles in your closet. Your budget will avoid a hit and your closet will have things you know you can wear.

Sunday, September 22, 2019

Crafter says, "It is not clutter."


Crafters say, “It’s not clutter.”

Ok folks, my home chores have been getting ignored. A fall in December 2018, finally, corrective surgery in April 2019, and therapy ever since.

I’m up to lifting one pound doing exercise, “hurray.” Unfortunately, my surgeon wants me further along. I’m trying, I really am. But it is what it is.

Anyhow, some excellent hand strength therapy was accomplished by making some things for the American Legion Auxiliary (ALA).

My inspiration can be located at this website, with some basic instructions

However, I had to go off scrip to complete my “flower pixies” to promote the ALA poppy program.
I used fine yarn for the body and yarn for the hair since the heads at WalMart did not have any through holes. I used a fine ribbon for the bodice wrap and underwear. The  flowers I used were roses, and since I had to make corsages, some red, white, and blue filler flowers. I used the flower fillers to create the corsages and boutonnières. (Buy flowers on sale.) We all agreed the red rose skirts most closely resemble poppies.

So why is this here.  A lot of crafters, myself included are considered clutter bugs because of our craft supplies. After working on a slew of these (over a couple of months), I’ve come to the conclusion that my crafts have to stay in my craft room. I dislike having to put up supplies in the middle of projects, hence the clutter bug tag.
I have turned over a new leaf, pun intended. I will only craft in my craft room from now on.

Clutter bug crafters, unite. And no my darling mechanic, you may not work on parts in the house!

Therefore, what projects are you doing in common areas that should have a designated space?




Saturday, September 14, 2019

Request: Health tips

I follow some sites. Someone requested that I share some health tips. Here are some of mine in no particular order.

Greet each day with meditation/prayer.
Concentrate on joyful things.
Surround yourself with positive people.
Get enough sleep each night.
Don’t try to burn the candle at both ends.
Learn to say, “no,” to requests.
Make time for your family, put them on your schedule.
Spend as much time reading the Bible, as you spend on your phone or answering email.
Admit when you are wrong.
Do not bear grudges, forgive.
Always tell your family and friends you love and appreciate them as you separate each day.
Eat a healthy diet.
Drink enough water.
Get enough exercise.
Help someone each day in secret, just because.
Give of yourself, your time, your talents.
Keep on top of daily tasks.
Cherish memories, not things.
Take any medications as per instructions.
Don’t take illegal drugs, and some legal ones.
Try to learn something new each day.
Think for yourself, be an individual.
Be the person that you would want for a friend.
If you don’t like yourself, why should anyone else like you?
Be slow to anger and quick to forgive.
Work for what you want.
Be satisfied with what you can afford.
Each new day is the  beginning of the rest of your life.
A person comfortable with his/herself will be happier and healthier throughout his/her life then that one who finds fault with others. Joy/Laughter is contagious.

Saturday, September 7, 2019

Sometimes You Have to Accessorize to tie things together.

A Burgundy Glider Rocker, A Red Zero & Black Zero Gravity Chair

My Burgundy Chair-A Glider

His red chair, my black chair

Both Zero Gravity Chairs with Custom Quilted Pillow Covers

The Burgundy Chair wit a black and burgundy cushion

Over all view of room

Add my Ikea Lap top table

Lap top table holding Kindle in place with the addition of a stretchy belt
 which is wrapped through the handle.

Tuesday, August 27, 2019

Reducing Incoming Clutter



Just received an “AARP Watchdog Alert Handbook, 13 Ways Con Artists Steal Your Money.”

Hold on, wait a minute, that is not what this topic is, rather some take-ways that I have gotten from it. You can go to aarp.org/fraudwatchnetwork and get the free information for yourself.) 


Have you gotten suspect fraud or spam emails wanting personal information or account numbers? Forward the email to spam@uce.gov[I wish I had that one for those pesky emails that, I have been deleting for the past 3 months. I am going to print it out on a label and post it near my computer.]

Are you getting pre-approved credit card applications in your regular mail? Call 1-888-5-OPT-OUT or visit optoutprescreen.com. AARP suggests putting outgoing mail into a locked postal service mailbox.

Cut down on junk mail by contacting the Direct Marketing Association at dmachoice.org. In addition to doing this, I say, “Cancel “wish book” subscriptions, most are available online anyway.”

If you are getting unwanted phone calls, interrupting your sleep or time with your family, sign up at donotcall.gov or call 1-888-382-1222.

Recently, someone called and told me that my credit card account is compromised. They left a call back number. I did not call back at the number they gave; instead, I called the number on the back of my card. Otherwise, I would have used my statement number to call them back.

Therefore, here is to decluttering both your home and valuable time with unnecessary incoming “stuff.” Hope this helps a bit.

Sunday, August 25, 2019

Repurposed Coffee Table into shoe changing bench

Plain, heavy. solid 5 foot coffee table.

Special order sunbrella seat cushion.

Three 20"x 20" throw pillows used to store lap throws.

Shoe changing seat with room for boots underneath.

Sunday, July 28, 2019

Wheel chair users suggestions


Talking on another site…

I was on a website and suggestions for handicapped housing features were requested. A lot of them were in my ebook. Here is a summary of the posts. Lots of requests were repeats so I just listed them once. There were a few that I hadn't included in my "Creating Your Forever Home." So here's what I gathered.


From the e-book itself

"The House Itself or Rooms, Rooms and More Rooms

□ One accessible barrier-free level with all of these on first floor


□ Living Room
□ Master Bedroom
□ Closets
□ Barrier-free Bathroom- open concept for master bedroom combo   
    ADA Compliant or large enough to transform
□ Laundry Room□ Kitchen-ADA compliant for wheel chair usage
□ Pantry-ADA compliant adjustable shelves
□ Dining Room
□ 2nd Bedroom
□ 2nd Bathroom
□ Home Office or Hobby Room
□ ADA Access to 2nd or 3rd Floor or Basement if available


Have written a blog,  free e-book on subject. In addition to the ADA standards, floor should not have any threshold barriers between rooms. Brighter lighting. Height adjustable cabinets, shelving, and tables, extra grab rails worked into design in hallways, Landing zone spaces at all doorways and space to stand or roll wheel chair beside entries to all rooms. Lower cabinets should have roll out drawers. Eliminate as many doors as possible."    Carolyn Overcash


Each person has unique disabilities or methods of dealing with those disabilities. Customizability is important. Borrow or  rent a wheelchair, walker, and crutches for a day. Try doing your normal activities with each of these.Except for the wheelchair we've tried them at my house. My home is not completely ready. a motorized wheelchair with leg outstretched in the bathroom or bedroom or entrances is still not possible. Modifications would be necessary and I'm pretty certain the bathroom just doesn't have the space at 5 feet by 11 feet. Walker, Yes, Crutches, Yes, Wheelchair, no.

Here’s the answers visitors to the site gave:

Ranch style house, unless you have an elevator (stair lifts require extra transfers)
A large garage to accommodate ramp and handicap accessible van--wider & taller spaced design
Barrier free entrance preferred-a no step porch & entrance
In addition to any needed ramp, ADA steps for walker
    –more shallow and wide, deeper for walker to fit on (Good for cane and crutch user)
An accessible path to the driveway/sidewalk

Audible and visual alarm/intercom system with video
Audible and visual doorbell
Entry into the home with a push of a remote to open the doors
WiFi enabled locks
Exterior doors with automatic openers by pushing a button, keypad, or by voice.

Open floor plan–open pathways in rooms
Wider doorways- 36-42 inches minimum
Eliminate hallways if possible
Wide hallways 42-48” minimum, note 60” is minimum for a wheelchair turn around 
Light switches lower and wall plugs higher to be available to wheel chair persons-ADA
No carpet or else Commercial type Low pile carpet
Eliminate throw rugs- they are dangerous
Eliminate carpets-tangle in front wheels of wheel chairs,
            wheel chairs tear up carpet, wheel chairs harder to push,
            more wear and tear on carpets,  carpets wear down batteries quicker
Hard wood floors-scratch resistant
Tile floors (non slip if difficulty walking)

Large accessible bathroom with ample space to move wheelchair around and access toilet
            Note: Try out accessible bathroom layouts to see which works best for you
Completely water proof- bathroom
Roll in shower stall
Drainage in floor
Shower water regulator in the middle of the bath wall
Shower head- you can adjust water temperature & water regulation
Shower seat (movable for best placement)
Two handheld shower heads, one for standing up and one beside the shower bench
Adjustable built in showerheads
Non-slip tile
A large bench for changing
Adjustable height sink
            Ability to roll wheel chair under sink
Faucets & handles available to wheel chair users (at side of sink or Knee access to turn on water)
Non-slippery Hand rails/grab bars –ADA+
Walk-in tub if you must have a tub

Larger bedroom
Larger closets with wheelchair access, wider doors & movable area
Adjustable shelves in closets, pull downs are nice but pricey
Adjustable rods in closets, pull downs are nice but pricey
Shorter drawers with “D” handle, arm/hand strength may be less
Hoyer lift framed ceiling support availability in at least one bedroom and adjacent bathroom
Preferred -Hoyer lift framed ceiling support in whole house-
            to be able to install a Hoyer lift track throughout the house.
Adjustable bed

ADA  Kitchen
Upper cabinets need to be lower, better yet remote pull down
Electric height adjust sink and stove cook top
Wheel chair can roll under sink, cook top, prep counter
Island  microwave
Organize/Layout Space so fridge, drawers can be open when seated
Side door opening oven
Lower countertops have wheel chair access
Adjustable/variable height counters
Lots of floor cabinets with lazy-susans , pull out shelves and drawers
Pull out shelve/drawers
Windows that crank or roll out since it is hard to lift them up from  a seated position
Accessible laundry rooms w/ lower front loading appliances and controls
     that can be reached from a seated position
Extra lighting in laundry area, tong hook  for tong
Wall studs placed so grab bars can be placed where needed/necessary
Drawer dishwasher
Pocket doors or lever handles on existing doors
Enough room to easily turn corners.
Appliance controls that are reachable when seated

SureHand lifts to transfer with tracks in the bedroom to the bathroom or to another part of the house.
A saltwater swimming pool for rehab
Eco friendly building materials that do not need off-gassing
Padded corners
Walk-out/Roll out basement
Paved or smooth paths and walkways in yard or low pile turf or grass (no gravel)
Appliances such as lights, thermostat, fans, controlled by phone app or remote.

One poster suggested, “ Check out TED Talks on Designing for Disability - esp Elise Roy.
https://www.ted.com/playlists/372/designing_for_disability