Tuesday, December 15, 2020

What to do, it is too long until Christmas!

 

It is too long until Christmas!


The wait for Christmas will go faster if you get involved in preparing for it.

Invite guests for a meal, and a party, maybe have them stay overnight.

You have to clean, decorate, cook, buy presents, clean.

Help out in your local homeless shelter.

Organize a toy drive for your local children’s home.

Adopt a grandparent in a nursing home or at your church.

Declutter your garage or shed.

Spruce up the outside of your house.

Make gifts or bake a dessert.

Write a newsletter and include pictures to share with your family members.

Include the highs and lows of this year. Add a blessings list.

Babysit for a neighbor and give a mom some “me” time.

Organize your decorations and take the ones you no longer want to a charity group so someone may be blessed with ornaments you no longer need.

Help a child make presents to give to a loved one.

Organizing your home

 I’ve written a workbook ebook; it will soon be going for a final edit before a possible printing. My focus is on adapting the home for life changes and is not heavy on the organizing side.

However, each individual and each family unit will face different challenges.

Our society (at least American) has pushed the idea that “more is better.” However, I'm afraid I have to disagree. In part, this mindset leads to disorganization.

One needs a vision of what the home's finished version should be to meet one’s expectations.

Things within a home need a contained designated space. Limits or maximums need to be set for each type of item.

When organizing, you need to contain the necessary “accumulation” to achieve organization.

Collections can easily get out of hand—these are as varied as individuals.

Peter Walsh urged people always to consider where you would display or use something before you bought it. I consider that statement to be a game-changer.

Shoes, purses, hats, tee shirts, belts, vests, coats, sweaters, costumes, jewelry, makeup are all things that can quickly become overwhelmingly abundant.

Toys, books, sentimental objects of art and framed pictures can quickly cover all open spaces.

Work tools and kitchen appliances can quickly expand to needing additional space for storage.

Then, there is paperwork—I thought computers were supposed to reduce the consumption of paper. There is a constant need to separate, shred, and file various hard copies of bills and documents. These documents are prioritized before fun magazines, trade magazines and reports, pictures, and sentimental cards.

You also need to include maintaining a digital filing system for documents and email, pictures, and interests.

I’ve taken several organization classes, participated in various decluttering events, and can tell you that organizing must become and remain an ongoing living method. One must change one’s habits, adopt a new way of keeping the home clean, and organized. If not, one goes back to the same disorganized way of doing things.

Personally, I start with the kitchen when cleaning—after all, it is the heart of the home.

Next- the bathroom needs to be clean and usable—it is a necessary room (in more than one way.)

The living room is the first room company visits—you do not want to be perceived as a slob, so this room must be cleaned and maintained.

The bedroom—my oasis (and castle) is the place where I relax.

The computer area—where the paperwork gets done, and bills are paid. Not to mention the primary contact with others when we cannot leave our homes.

Timing is everything. You will not get anything done if you do not set aside a block of time and a date to organize things—and do not forget the maintenance aspect of keeping an area organized. Most projects will take longer than you think. You need to set small goals that lead to completing larger tasks. This will result in an ongoing series of daily things.

As for having help when organizing, many hands lighten the load—but only if they help positively. Seek help for what needs to be done—especially if it is not your area of expertise. 

How can you slow down your life?

To practice slow living, we have now arrived (in our household) by doing the following things.

  • Learn to say “no” to things that you don’t enjoy doing.
  • Never promise to do more than you can deliver.
  • Learn to delegate tasks.
  • Involve everyone in the household chores.
  • Learn to block out time to spend with your immediate family.
  • Schedule “me” time.
  • Have at least one day to “catch up” on the chores.
  • Designate one day a week as a play date day.
  • Simplify choices.
  • Learn to enjoy doing things at home.
  • Turn off the cell phone.
  • Only check the mail once a day.
  • Unsubscribe from nonessential sites and magazines.
  • Do all necessary tasks correctly the first time.
  • Do not procrastinate when something needs to be done.

Remember that doing necessary things now means you have free time later.

Moving tips

 I have a few tips for someone who is moving.

  • Get rid of things you do not want or need before you move.
  • The best practice when moving—use a date and time stamp on the pictures.
  • Please take pictures of the contents in the boxes before you close them.
  • Label the boxes as to the room destination.
  • Packing takes longer than you think it will.
  • Carry valuables with you, such as jewelry, bank books, meds.
  • Buy specialty packing for fragile items; you might want to carry these too.
  • Take pictures of the door jams and walls before the movers start moving your furniture.
  • Please take pictures of the furniture before you move—in case it gets damaged or disappears.
  • Please take some pictures of the movers with your items.
  • Open all damaged cartons before signing off on the delivery.
  • Have someone responsible at the end destination.
  • It would be best to take pictures of how you are leaving your old house or apartment or room.
  • Please take pictures of your new place before you start moving into it.

Get help; you are going to need it!

You might need to simplify if

 You might need to simplify if

  • you can not find your car or house keys
  • you can not find the bill to pay it
  • the checkbook or credit card has disappeared, again
  • you’ve missed the dentist/doctor/specialist/hair appointment, again
  • you forgot to pick up your child, your sibling, your significant other, or your parent
  • you are tripping over things in the house
  • boxes or things are attacking you in your home
  • the inside of your fridge has become a science experiment
  • the post office is giving you a key to another box so you can pick up all your mail
  • you had to borrow a stranger’s gas can because you forgot to fill up your car
  • you had to do the smell test because you have no clean work clothes
  • the dog ate your presentation
  • your cat deleted your report
  • you’ve misplaced your glasses, but they are on top of your head
  • you can not remember if you have taken your medicine
  • you can not remember if you have locked your house
  • you ask yourself if you have turned off the stove
  • you forget to turn off the lights after you get into bed

Finally, if you think it is okay to talk on the phone while driving and question the other drivers' driving skills after a near miss!

A Thoughtful Christmas Gift to Someone Close to You

 

The most thoughtful gift I can give on Christmas to someone close to me is myself and my talents. I’m hosting and cooking the Christmas dinner; all the invitees have to do is show up. 

My husband will help me by setting up extra tables and chairs, cleaning the floors, and paying for everything.

Our Christmas card will include suggesting getting together and splitting the bill for a meal. 

Some of my immediate family members have discussed getting together to declutter and clean, thus helping each other. It is easier and more energizing when one has some help to do a task.

I sew; therefore, I hem, sew on buttons, and repair seams and rips for those who cannot.

I craft, so I’ve plans to do a craft with some of them. I have the supplies.

At our ages (my family and friends) [and in this time of uncertainty], spending time with each other (yeah, yeah—safely) is more important than ever.

Give of yourself—your time and your talents as a Christmas present.

My Christmas card contains the following sayings.


Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!


I’ve missed being with you throughout this trying year.

So let’s get together when there is nothing to fear.

Whether we cook and clean or do something else around the house,

I won’t tell anyone. I’ll be quiet as a mouse.


So just let me know when you want to get together.

I’m always available through storms or fair weather.

It can be before Christmas or after the New Year too,

Always, please, remember that I love you!